How do we deal with them, and which way do we take to make them happy and happy
- Multiplication .. in the Education Dictionary:
Educational scholars differed about resorting to the method of multiplication in the educational process. Some of them prevented it, and some of them allowed for beatings in its educational method, as did Western schools, particularly in America and Britain.
If we went back to the best and greatest educator, he is our beloved and the readers of our eyes Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, and briefed us on the biography of those who were raised under his confines and in his noble prophetic school, we found that he used distress, as he was giving until he was satisfied, and he was forbidden until he raised.
On the other hand, a child who is educated by pampering acquires bad habits, for he invites invitations, always satisfies his desires and requests, and he gets used to it. Are you doing that to me? Perhaps he would tell his colleagues his hatred to sit with his father or mother because he could not hear from one of them the word "no
This is a wrong way. If the son used to meet his needs and then told him "no" without introductions or reasons that convinced him, he would not get used to it, because he has no energy for patience, so he rebels against his parents.
Adherence to permanent power does not work, and adherence to permanent evidence also does not work.
When do we hit our children
There are situations that require beatings, if the child is holding a knife or a pair of scissors in order to harm his brother, then the punishment must be used in order to finish the problem directly in peace, or if he is throwing stones at the children, he must strike in front of the children in order not to get used to violence.
Severity and cruelty must also be used if we hear one of the sons declare religion and offend him and the Messenger or one of the Companions, in this case, we can never be silent but we are punished and reprimanded.
Punishment is not limited to beating only, but rather to restraint, reprimand and deprivation, as there are children whose beating is not a deterrent to them, so it is deprived of the expense, for example, or from leaving the house, or is severely punished with it in dialogue.
Moderation:
Many times, parents harden their children without realizing that they are misbehaving, so the deprivation period is cruel, and the son is held accountable for every big and small (have you brushed your teeth - why do you sit like this - all with your right hand - where are you going and when will you come - what did you do .. etc) this The method in dialogue the son feels that he is an observer and accountable for every movement and even eliminates privacy from the son's life.
He also left the son without censorship (assaulting - insulting - striking) without reprimand or insulting.
The duration of deprivation is cruel, the turmoil is significant, and the good in mediating and moderation between them.
Choose the right dialogue:
In order for the son not to feel monitored and restricted in his movements, and to turn off the mobile device in order to avoid the call of the father or mother, the appropriate method of dialogue with him must be chosen in order for him to feel safe and confident, for example, to say to him: My son, where are you going? Speak to me when God comes, God bless you, and if you move somewhere else do not forget to call me.
Cruelty means the deprivation of the son's freedom in any penalty.
And the meaning means: leaving freedom for him in everything, and in this and that he killed family happiness.
The difference between news and permission
Dear Educator: Your son is accustomed to the etiquette of permission, so do not go back to him saying to you: I am going to my colleague or to any other place, he only tells her to inform you about it. To get out - can I go today to my colleague
Know, virtuous educator, that the successful father is the one who raises the son to the word "yes" and gets used to the word "no" and accepts it with the same kindness, and he is the one who returns his son to literature in dialogue and respect for others.
So bear fruit in a good environment.
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